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		<title>shadow or dance?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Feb 2012 01:49:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Paula Josa-Jones]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes the shadows overwhelm the dance. In relationships, that can mean that we have fallen into shadow, and are no longer dancing.  That seems to happens when there is no real listening, or our attention shifts to the dark parts &#8211; the unlit terrain of the relationship. What is the path out of that?  I [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>Sometimes the shadows overwhelm the dance. In relationships, that can mean that we have fallen into shadow, and are no longer dancing.  That seems to happens when there is no real listening, or our attention shifts to the dark parts &#8211; the unlit terrain of the relationship.</p>
<p>What is the path out of that?  I think it is deciding that the history of the shadows, the background architecture of the story is no longer really important. What is needed is finding a way to flow forward with good intention.  Then the shadows are not a problem, just playful dance partners.</p>
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