Author Archives: Paula Josa-Jones

allow

Jane Sezak is a wonderful astrologer who lives in Kauai.  For twenty years, I have received her readings on my birthday.  She tells me about my progression, transits, and the themes that are up for the coming year.

Every year, she says something about letting yourself be led by how life is leading you. Abraham calls it allowing And every day, that seems to be a lesson that I learn again.

Allowing is the opposite of resisting.  The opposite of trying to control, figure out, work hard enough to make things happen. The opposite of fear.

Today my moment of allowing was small – I had to just accept feeling uninspired and tired.  Tomorrow my daughters come home for the holiday.  More allowing will be required.

How do you experience allowing?

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light & shadow

I think that one of the things about becoming older is that the shadows get smaller.  More of me is revealed to myself and others, rust and all.

Riding, yoga and writing practice all help me to bring things forward into the light, illuminating what is hidden in the shadows.  Each time I ride I am seeking more and more sensitivity and refinement in what I feel from the horse and in my own body.  It is the same with my movement practices and with writing.

Taking photographs is teaching me that sometimes practicing is just about waiting for the light.  Or making peace with the shadows.

This week in The Journal I am writing about what happened when I went to have new headshots taken.

Where are you feeling the light today?

barking woman

Yesterday morning at breakfast, our Spanish Galgo, Cho, barked loudly right behind me.  I yelled, “Cho!” and then laughed because I sounded just like him.  Barking woman.

Which brings me to the topic of reactivity.  Knee jerk reactions.

Many years ago, during a creative residency, composer Pauline Oliveros taught me several of her Deep Listening strategies.  One she called the instantaneous strategy.  It works like this:  when you hear a sound, you respond with a sound immediately. Or you move as fast as you can when you see or sense a movement.  Being good at this  strategy demands that the response bypasses conscious thought, which tends to slow things down.

Practicing the instantaneous strategy is different from a knee jerk reaction, in that it is intentional.  I have discovered that practicing the instantaneous strategy can tune you up for those moments when you may need to respond instinctively very, very fast.  Like when a cup slips out of your hand.  Or when a child or an animal is in danger.

Here’s is today’s recipe:  find a moment to practice being instantaneous.  Tell me about it.