Author Archives: Paula Josa-Jones

midlines

Sensing and feeling the mid-line can be a challenge when most of us feel out of kilter and out of balance a lot of the time.  A couple weeks ago my lovely Amadeo had a nice big buck while I was riding.  I was feeling fragile emotionally, and so not quick enough to come up out of the saddle to protect myself.  The result: a coccyx sprain.  I walked around feeling rotated, disconnected and fragmented until my next osteopathy appointment.  It was frustrating and interesting to feel that off my mid-line.  Andy Goldman, my osteopath, encouraged me to ride my mid-line in sync with the mid-line of the horse.  So on my next ride, I paid attention to my newly centered tailbone, feeling it connect to the horse’s tail, and sending my energy up my spine through the center of the occipital ridge while seeing/feeling the horse’s poll.

The result was a surprising deliciousness and sense of connection and balance in the ride.  I also noticed that Deo’s crookedness tracking right was connected to the way I close the space between my right shoulder and sternum (shifting my mid-line too far to the left), effectively closing the door to his ability to open to the right!  When I opened that space, with a feeling of widening and softening, he began to straighten and soften!

Revelations!

Then today, while coaching a performer (the lovely Sari Max), I asked her to notice her mid-line with a couple somatic exercises of moving away from and then back onto a centered mid-line.  Then I asked her to move from lying down to standing pausing along the way to look at where her mid-line was in that moment,  The result was that her movement from floor to standing was beautifully effortless and grounded.  Then we took that same sense of mid-line into the text of the play, connecting a physical sense of center and balance to the emotional through-line of each line.  The result was a deeper authenticity and groundedness in the language and movement.  Brilliant and transformational!

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500!!!

This is my 500th post!  That feels like a significant marker.  So in honor of that, I would like to offer these images that I took this morning in the rain, and offer thanks to these wonderful folks who have inspired and supported my blogging efforts:

Jon Katz, Pam White, Maria Wulf, Jenna Wogenrich, Pam Sissons (Mannix Marketing), Elizabeth Lord and Robert Schaufleberger (Deko Design) and all of you who comment, like and otherwise respond to my writing.  I love knowing that you are out there, reading, living, appreciating!

Onward!

the inner and the outer

The theme of my recent teleclass with the Consciousness Collaborative was how to have an inner awareness, while at the same time being aware of the outer world.  Most of us feel that in order to go “in” we must somehow protect that special state by closing our eyes or in some other way shut out the outside world.  We may feel that when we come “out” somehow “in” goes away.  I think the issue is that we need to shorten the commute between in and out, or find a way of holding both simultaneously.

Start with the breath.  That is our 24/7 experience of in and out.  Always available, pretty reliable, seldom conscious.  By bringing a consciousness to the breath, we can begin to enjoy an easy flow between in and out.  Focus on the sensation of bringing air in  – not forcing, no deep breathing necessary – just allow the breath to enter.  Then release the breath out.  Feel the outside world coming in, and then the inside world of your body moving out.

So to have an immediate in and out experience, close your eyes and (softly) focus on the breathing.  Now open your eyes (gently) and continue to feel your breathing while seeing what is around you.  Close your eyes, then open them.  Cross that in/out threshhold a few times.  Is your commute shorter?  Can you taste the inner and the outer simultaneously?  Can you think of other ways to do that?

 

tender courage

Sometimes it is staggeringly difficult to maintain a sense of vulnerability and openness in the face of loss and sorrow, or outright cruelty by others.  Vulnerability can feel to skinless, too exposed, too dangerous.   So thank you Brene Brown, for this: 

“What we know matters, but who we are matters more. Being rather than knowing requires showing up and letting ourselves be seen. It requires us to dare greatly, to be vulnerable.

Vulnerability isn’t good or bad. It’s not what we call a dark emotion, nor is it always a light, positive experience. Vulnerability is the core of all emotions and feelings. To feel is to be vulnerable. To believe vulnerability is weakness is to believe that feeling is weakness. To foreclose on our emotional life out of a fear that the costs will be too high is to walk away from the very thing that gives purpose and meaning to living.

Vulnerability is the birthplace of love, belonging, joy, courage, empathy, accountability, and authenticity. If we want greater clarity in our purpose or deeper and more meaningful spiritual lives, vulnerability is the path.”