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perfection

Photo:  Pam White

Nothing needs to be fixed. Everything is unfolding perfectly. So when you stand in your now accepting that all is well, then from that vibration, you become surrounded by more and more evidence that all is well. But when you’re convinced that things are broken, that there is pollution, or that things have gone wrong, or that the government is doing conspiracies… then what happens is you get caught up in that vibration, and you begin to manifest that kind of stuff, and then you say, “See, I told you that things were going wrong.”

— Abraham, Excerpted from the workshop in North Los Angeles, CA on Tuesday, March 7th, 2000

I got this in my inbox from Abraham last week.  It sums up pretty perfectly what I have been practicing.  Appreciation and being ok with what is here now.  To not focus on what I don’t want to bring home with me.

Two nights ago I started to read a story in the New Yorker.  It was about the Rutgers student who committed suicide because of online bullying.  I read less than one sentence, and then closed the magazine.  I know about it and that s enough – more than enough.  I don’t need to explore it.

The same thing goes for the pre-election scuffling, posturing and ranting.  There is really nothing there for me.  I will probably work for the candidate of my choice, but I will be looking to frame things in an expansive, positive way, rather than getting caught up in the fear-rage muck.

I realized a while back that there are certain chronic vibrations/mind states that are very hard to shift.  The scarcity mentality is one of those. If I am convinced that there will never be enough, there certainly will not be enough.  If I cannot feel my way toward a sense of plenty, then that fullness cannot find me.

So here is what I do.  I do not focus there.  I pet a dog/cat/horse or put on some music and dance, or drink a lovely cup of tea, have lunch with my honey or watch a movie.  That kind of distraction is a very good strategy for creating a feeling of appreciation, which is where the good stuff can find me, every time.

 

 

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taxi wisdom

I was in New York City today for the third time this week.  It was cold and dark when I caught the 6:50 train.  I had brought some editing and got into a fabulous focus flow with my two seatmates who were both buried in their Kindles.

The train was delayed by 40 minutes, and I was walking fast when a taxi unloaded its passenger right in front of me, so I flagged him down.  He was a lovely Sikh gentleman, and because I have a long and deep relationship with India and Nepal, we began to talk.

He said what a beautiful day it was.  How many people do not notice the beauty of the day and the simple pleasures of the sun and just being alive.  He talked about people living in India who seem often so much happier even though they are poorer by far.   He talked about spirit and appreciation and happiness pretty much for the whole trip, which was not long, and I felt pretty blissful by the time we reached my destination.

As I got out of the taxi, I realized that I had just experienced a rampage of appreciation.   Have a listen.

the looking glass

Photo:  theredmenmovie.com

Yesterday I wrote about how the horse mirrors us and asked, “What mirrors you?”  Here is another take:

This is always true: What I think and how I feel, and what manifests, is always a vibrational match. But here’s the big kicker: What manifests isn’t manifesting instantaneously. So, you’ve got all this buffer of time leeway that makes you sloppy… If you thought a negative thought and a brick would instantly fall on your head every time, you’d clean up your thinking. But you’re not here to be punished about your thinking. You’re here to use your thinking—and your focus—to create.  Abraham, Excerpted from the workshop in Washington, DC on Saturday, May 7th, 2005

Today when I woke up I could feel myself looking for trouble.  I felt it through breakfast, and pretty much through most of the morning.  This is not my usual state (any more), so I was well aware of feeling edgy, cranky and like if there was poo on the road, I was going to step in it.  Which is, metaphorically, pretty much what happened.  A nice blow up with my daughter, and a raging neck ache.  Trouble delivered.

What I am practicing now is using my focus to create how I want to feel.  This is my recipe:  hug my daughter (done); take some motrin (done); pet a cat (happening now); take a bath; eat the beautiful dinner that raw chef Stacey Stowers is preparing for us tonight; watch Downton Abbey online.

Begin again.

out of office

If you have been wondering why I am not showing p in your inbox, it is because of a bad flu.  A complete flat tire.  Catching up on past series of Inspector Lewis.  Hopefully back online tomorrow.  In the meantime, there is this from Abraham:

You just cannot kill everybody who doesn’t agree with you. You can’t do it. You’ll kill enough of them, and pretty soon, you’ll be down to the nitty gritty that is just you guys, and then you’ll start disagreeing with each other… In other words, you cannot get to where you want to be by pushing against what you do not want—it never, ever works.

— Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in Washington, DC on Saturday, May 7th, 2005 # 302